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		<title>Be careful what parties you attend</title>
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		<pubDate>Sun, 25 Sep 2011 15:15:20 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Laban Thua</dc:creator>
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</script></div>Apparently word has it that Mercy went to the party with her aunt.  The
aunt invited her and the party started off slow but later picked with time. Mercy excitedly called the fiancé to inform him that our 'flamboyant MP' was in the house.]]></description>
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</script></div><p>Apparently word has it that Mercy went to the party with her aunt.  The<br />
aunt invited her and the party started off slow but later picked with time. Mercy excitedly called the fiancé to inform him that our &#8216;flamboyant MP&#8217; was in the house. <span id="more-132"></span></p>
<p>Little known to her about the party, guys were busy drinking blood and eating human parts. The tray got to her and she was really annoyed when she learnt that it was a cult party.<br />
She started shouting and screaming that she could not be part of it, tried<br />
running, but they caught up with her. Later they had her blood drained and  body dumped. Reason why?  No blood was found anywhere.  Apparently the aunt was making a sacrifice and she picked the innocent Mercy.<br />
**********************************<br />
The family was apparently left in precarious situation where it didn’t<br />
and still doesn’t know where to start coz one of their own is involved.</p>
<p>It is said that those who put their statements down at the police<br />
station &#8211; they all read the same and nothing concrete or tangible could<br />
come out of it&#8230;juu hakuna kuuzana.</p>
<p>The story came out of the limelight weeks later coz the family has<br />
started speaking polepole but in a very &#8216;watch ur back&#8217; kind of a way.</p>
<p>Money is said to change hands in these parties and that the story was<br />
not likely to headline our papers or the media&#8230;.but as they say &#8216;what<br />
happens in the dark will one day come to light.&#8217;</p>
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		<title>Carjacked by a Car tracking Company</title>
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		<pubDate>Sun, 25 Sep 2011 12:38:07 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Gachie</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[It all begun on Saturday 9th july. Me my husband mbugua and our baby girl decided to go and see our land that that we had bought at juja farm....]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>It all begun on Saturday 9th july. Me my husband mbugua and our baby girl decided to go and see our land that that we had bought at juja farm. The land is located 8 kilometres off the Thika super high way from juja. It was around 2pm and we stay at kikuyu. So we enter our white Toyota NZE which my husband bought a week before at a car yard along Ngong road Nairobi&#8230; let me take you back a bit to the day we bought the car&#8230; When we bought the car my husband who is so keen on security<br />
decided to go and install an alarm to chase away would be thieves. When we were there  a man came and introduced himself as mwaura just after we had finalised the deal and advised us instead of putting the alarms we should instead install a tracking device on the vehicle.<br />
He further advised us that we should not go to the well established offices that they would charge high prices for the tracking device. We took his number and told him that we would get back to him as he was offering to install a traking device at only 12,000/= shillings. He even gave us directions to where we can get him at Ngara. We decided to shop other companies to find out the truth  and found out they charge 25000/= to 35000/= for the tracking device. We decided that since these companies were expensive we should go for Mwauras tracking devices as they offer more features. My husband called Mwaura the following day and decided to install a tracking device from him although he had no office and i guess no papers to do the work. We reached at Ngara where he installed a tracking device and showed my husband how to track using his phone he even accepted 6000/= as down payment the rest were to  pay in 30 days. We were satisfied knowing that our car was safe and knew we had gotten the best bargain&#8230;.ok back to our story we reached juja farm around 5.30 pm as we had stopped at a club called By pass in for some meat. We started viewing our land interviewing people to know the current value of our land. We were so happy as we had bought the land for 30,000/= in 2002 and now the land was valued at 350,000/=. We hadn&#8217;t been here for some time so we stayed for some time. As we were viewing other pieces of land in the area my husband told me that some men who passed us looked familiar but we ignored. We finished our business and decided to head back home as it was getting late.<br />
We started our journey back home and as we were going thru that dirty road so as to join the high way our car suddenly stopped. We wondered why it happened as it was quarter tank and the car had been serviced. When it stopped my husband opened the bonnet to check what was wrong. On opening the bonnet the car with three men stopped besides us and pointed the gun to my husband. I was about to scream when all over sudden the second man pointed a knife at me. I kept quite and the two men ordered as in the car. One man used his phone to start the car and all of us drove off. I guess someone with the codes stopped the car.  At the time i just held my baby close to me as one man was busy molesting me. My husband had been bundled in the boot. We drove for what seemed to be eternity to a secluded place where the thieves stopped.<br />
The thieves opened the bonnet and removed a tracking device right in front of my face. It&#8217;s like they had all the information on the tracking gadget. They stripped us and one of the thugs tied us together and they went with our baby. This was after they raped me for a few minutes. We were left there for some time .my husband was unconscious by then as they had beaten him. We stayed there the whole night and in the morning a passerby rescued us. We were rushed to thika district hospital<br />
after which we ended up in Kenyatta as my husband had major injuries. I was the first to be discharged and started looking for our baby.<br />
Fortunately we found her at a police station abandoned having been brought by a Good Samaritan. My husband was discharged two weeks later, we are now recuperating. We went to the police station and on trying to reach mwaura his mteja all this time we have never found our car despite reporting to the police. The investigation are ongoing and cant divulge alot of info now but  What i have been told is that there is a cartel of thugs installing tracking devices in ngara and hurlingamm, ngong road e.t.c. . What i can&#8217;t understand is who is licensing people to start tracking as the other day my friend told me a colleague where she work buys tracking devices and install in people cars. I thought this is a security issue and the government should vet tracking companies. I was told they are supposed to be vetted  by cck but who goes around checking. MWAURAS COMPANY WAS CALLED SIMBA TRACK does cck know of such a company or any security agency  If any tom dick hurry can order units from china and install in our car how safe are we . This is a security issue and should be treated with the seriousness it deserves I BLAME THE GOVERMENT FOR NOT PROTECTING ME . I BLAME THE GOVERMENT FOR RAPING ME AND I BLAME THE GOVERMENT  FOR LETTING THUGS DISGUISE THEMSELF AND STEAL FROM US.<br />
Does it mean security business are not vetted and all this individuals should be known i.e banks  HOPE NOBODY EVER SUFFER THIS FATE JUST BE CAREFUL WHICH COMPANY INSTALLS THE TRACKING UNITS OR OFFERS SECURIITY THEY MAY BE THE THIEVES I want answers and Kenyans need protection</p>
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		<title>Errant Buru Buru Husband Learns His Lesson The Hard Way</title>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 22 Feb 2011 15:34:23 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Laban Thua</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Errant Buru Buru Husband Learns His Lesson The Hard Way Some stories are just too strange to be fiction and the one you are about to read falls neatly into...]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Errant Buru Buru Husband Learns His Lesson The Hard Way<br />
Some stories are just too strange to be fiction and the one you are<br />
about to read falls neatly into this category.</p>
<p>This long suffering Kenyan wife knew her husband well and especially<br />
his promiscuity, but stayed in the marriage for the sake of her<br />
children. She did this at great risk to her life because we all know<br />
that these days, a husbands&#8217; infidelity can cost a wife their life<br />
though the dreaded Aids (okay, even a wife&#8217;s infidelity can, but those<br />
cases are somewhat extremely rare.)</p>
<p>The couple moved into this new neighborhood and as usual the husband<br />
started playing his &#8220;games&#8221;. It did not matter that the focus of his<br />
attention was a married woman whose husband traveled a lot. The woman<br />
lived right next door to them.</p>
<p>Luckily the young woman struck a friendship with the errant husband&#8217;s<br />
wife (let us call the errant man<br />
 &#8221;Jogoo&#8221;).</p>
<p>Jogoo knew about the friendship and that is why he was a little<br />
surprised when the woman suddenly started softening towards his<br />
advances. To the extent where she invited him for a night of<br />
passionate lovemaking, as long as he followed her instructions to the<br />
letter. Jogoo could not believe his ears and at first thought that the<br />
woman was joking. But he soon realized that she was dead serious. He<br />
brushed aside any doubts he may have had by telling himself that most<br />
women found him irresistible.</p>
<p>The day of his &#8220;hot&#8221; date could not come soon enough but finally it<br />
arrived and Jogoo was in very high spirits the whole of that day,<br />
really looking forward with all his heart to the planned activities of<br />
the night. Of all his &#8220;conquests&#8221;, this one had to be the most major.</p>
<p>The young neighbors wife was extremely attractive and was now his<br />
wife&#8217;s best friend. Meaning that she desired him so much that she<br />
was prepared to risk her friendship with his wife – what a turn on, Jogoo<br />
thought to himself. He decided to while the hours away having a few<br />
drinks at the nearby &#8220;local.&#8221; His instructions were clear.</p>
<p>He was to<br />
come in after midnight when chances of the woman&#8217;s husband showing up<br />
unexpectedly were virtually nil. He had also been told not to switch<br />
on any lights (you never know which nosy neighbor would spot him, and<br />
tell his wife).</p>
<p>He kept himself amused flirting with the huge pot-bellied bar maid who<br />
obviously enjoyed his advances immensely. But then he was really no<br />
longer interested in her having already enjoyed her favors within a<br />
day or two of moving into the neighborhood.</p>
<p>Finally he glanced at his watch and noted that it was a minute or so<br />
to midnight. He hurriedly swallowed his last beer and left the bar<br />
almost running. He passed his own house and noted that all the lights<br />
were off, meaning that his wife had already gone to bed.</p>
<p>He went in through the back and found the key under the mat just as he<br />
had been told. Once inside, he locked the door behind him and tiptoed<br />
upstairs into his neighbor&#8217;s bedroom.</p>
<p>She was waiting for him. The first thing that hit him as he entered<br />
the bedroom was her perfume. Very feminine but it also smelt like wild<br />
flowers. What followed was a night of wild lovemaking with the<br />
neighbor&#8217;s wife. He fell into an exhausted sleep and by the time he<br />
woke up the sun was already shining through the still-drawn curtains.</p>
<p>Events of the night came flooding back and he turned around with a<br />
wide smile to face his neighbor&#8217;s wife with the thought being intimate<br />
one last time. Instead he got the shock of his life.</p>
<p>Lying there right next to him, eyes open and looking straight at him<br />
was his dear wife!!</p>
<p>His wife congratulated him for displaying a passion that she had never<br />
known him for. Jogoo was too shocked to say anything.</p>
<p>Apparently the two wives had decided to teach him a lesson and to<br />
carry out an experiment that proved what psychologists have always<br />
been saying – that sex is really in the mind.</p>
<p>They had switched places and Jogoo&#8217;s own wife had worn her friend&#8217;s night dress and used her<br />
perfume and waited eagerly for her own errant husband, who had not<br />
recognized her in the dark bedroom and amazingly during the entire<br />
long night of lovemaking.</p>
<p>The person who sent me this story left too many questions unanswered.<br />
For instance what happened to the marriage after this? Did it get<br />
better or worse?</p>
<p>They only ended the story by stating the obvious, that Jogoo learnt a<br />
lesson that he would never forget and that his errant ways ended that<br />
night.</p>
<p>Can somebody please finish this (true, real life experience) tale for<br />
us and tell us exactly what happened.</p>
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		<title>Beautiful words of wisdom</title>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 21 Feb 2011 17:53:00 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Laban Thua</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[ALL THE BEST Your words, your dreams, and your thoughts have the power to create conditions in your life. What you speak about, you can bring about. If you keep...]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>ALL THE BEST</p>
<p>Your words, your dreams,<br />
and your thoughts have the<br />
power to create conditions in your life.</p>
<p>What you speak about, you can bring about.</p>
<p>If you keep saying you can&#8217;t stand your job,<br />
you might lose your job.</p>
<p>If you keep saying you can&#8217;t stand your body,<br />
your body can become sick.</p>
<p>If you keep saying you can&#8217;t stand your car,<br />
your car could be stolen or just stop operating.</p>
<p>If you keep saying you&#8217;re always broke, guess what?<br />
You&#8217;ll always be broke.</p>
<p>If you keep saying you can&#8217;t trust a man or trust a woman,<br />
you will always find someone in your life to hurt and betray you.</p>
<p>If you keep saying you can&#8217;t find a job,<br />
you will remain unemployed.</p>
<p>If you keep saying you can&#8217;t find someone to love you or believe in you,<br />
our very thoughts will attract more experiences to confirm your beliefs.</p>
<p>Turn your thoughts and conversations around to be more positive<br />
and power packed with faith, hope, love and action.</p>
<p>Don&#8217;t be afraid to believe that you can<br />
have what you want and deserve.</p>
<p>Watch your &#8220;Thoughts,&#8221;<br />
they become words;</p>
<p>Watch your &#8220;Words,&#8221;<br />
they become actions;</p>
<p>Watch your &#8220;Actions,&#8221;<br />
they become habits;</p>
<p>Watch your &#8220;Habits,&#8221;<br />
they become character;</p>
<p>Watch your &#8220;Character&#8221;,<br />
for it becomes your &#8220;Destiny&#8221;</p>
<p>So&#8230;&#8230;.To prevent any obstacles&#8230;&#8230;.</p>
<p>GET OUT OF YOUR OWN WAY!</p>
<p>Enjoy every minute you live!!</p>
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		<title>Never use a phone while charging</title>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 09 Feb 2011 14:11:42 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Laban Thua</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[The same thing happened to a child at Kawangware only that the child didn't die but has a scar on his neck. This was featured last year in the Consumer alert...]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><tt><tt>The same thing happened to a child at Kawangware only that the child didn't die but has a scar on his neck. This was featured last year in the Consumer alert on NTV but most probably you didn't watch it  you were busy watching the world cup.<br />
How many of us do this?<br />
Answer a cell phone while it is being CHARGED!!<br />
A few days ago, a person was charging his cell phone<br />
at home in Sandton Johannesburg. Just at that time a call came and he attended to it with the instrument still connected to the mains. After a few seconds electricity flowed into the cell phone unrestrained and the young man was thrown to the ground with a heavy thud.<br />
His parents rushed to the room only to find him unconscious, with weak heartbeats and burnt fingers.<br />
He was rushed to the nearby hospital, but was pronounced dead on arrival.<br />
</tt></tt><tt><tt>Cell phone is a very useful modern invention.<br />
However, we must be aware that it can also be an instrument of death.<br />
Never use the cell phone while it is hooked to the mains! </tt></tt></p>
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		<title>A Beautiful Story &#8211; Self  Appraisal</title>
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		<pubDate>Sat, 11 Dec 2010 06:20:16 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Laban Thua</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[A little boy went to a Telephone booth which was at the cash counter of a store &#038; dialed a number.
The store-Owner observed and listened to the  Conversation...]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>A little boy went to a Telephone booth which was at the cash counter of a store &amp; dialed a number.<br />
The store-Owner observed and listened to the  Conversation: <span id="more-108"></span></p>
<p>Boy: &#8220;Lady, Can you give me the job of cutting your lawn?<br />
Woman: (at the other end of the phone line) &#8220;I  already have someone to cut my lawn.&#8221;<br />
Boy: &#8220;Lady, I will cut your lawn for half the price than the person who cuts your lawn now.&#8221;<br />
Woman: I&#8217;m very satisfied with the person who is  presently cutting my lawn.<br />
Boy: (with more perseverance) &#8220;Lady, I&#8217;ll even sweep the floor &amp; the stairs of your house for free.<br />
Woman: No, thank you.</p>
<p>With a smile on his face, the little  boy end call with thank you.</p>
<p>The Store-owner, who was listening to all this,  walked over to the boy.</p>
<p>Store Owner: &#8220;Son&#8230;I like your attitude; I like that positive spirit &amp; would like to offer you a job.&#8221;<br />
Boy: &#8220;No thanks,<br />
Store Owner:  But you were really pleading for one.<br />
Boy: No Sir, I was just  checking my performance at the job I already have.</p>
<p>I am the one who is  working for that lady I was talking to!&#8221;</p>
<p>This is called</p>
<h3><span style="color: #800000;">&#8220;Self  Appraisal&#8221;</span></h3>
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		<title>Latest Trick in Kenyan Towns.</title>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 08 Nov 2010 04:41:31 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Laban Thua</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Please read and pass on. This could happen to you or your loved ones.

A man came over and offered his services as a painter to a lady who
was buying petrol at a filling station. He gave her his "complimentary
card".]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p style="text-align: center;"><strong>Please read and pass on. This could happen to you or your loved ones.</strong></p>
<p>A man came over and offered his services as a painter to a lady who was buying petrol at a filling station. He gave her his &#8220;complimentary card&#8221;.<br />
She said &#8220;No&#8221;, but after some persuasion, she accepted his card out of kindness and got in her car.<span id="more-97"></span></p>
<p>The man then got into a car driven by another gentleman..</p>
<p>As the lady left the service station, she saw the men following her out of the station at the same time.</p>
<p>After driving a short distance, she started feeling dizzy and could not catch her breath. She tried to open the window and realized that her hand had a sweet smelling odour. This was the same hand she used to accept the card from the gentleman at the Petrol station.</p>
<p>She then noticed the men were trailing her. Their car was immediately behind her and she knew she had to do something at that moment. She drove into the first turning on her right and it was a busy road. She began to honk her horn repeatedly, non- stop and started shouting for help.</p>
<p>She stopped her car and continued horning and within a few minutes,her car was surrounded by a crowd.</p>
<p>On seeing the situation, the men drove away, but the lady still felt bad for several minutes. She was able to tell the crowd her husband&#8217;s GSM phone number and somebody in the crowd called him. He arrived, the scene and took her to a high brow hospital for treatment. She was discharged after 48 hours.</p>
<p>WHAT HAPPENED?</p>
<p>Apparently, there was a substance on the card that could have seriously injured her. This drug is called &#8216;BURUNDANGA&#8217; and it is used by CRIMINALS who wish to incapacitate a victim in order to steal, kill or take advantage of women (RAPE).</p>
<p>This drug is 4 times more dangerous than the date rape drug and it is transferable on simple cards and papers.</p>
<p>So take heed and make sure you don&#8217;t accept cards at any given time (when you are alone) from STRANGERS &#8211; in the streets, markets, filling stations etc. This applies to those making house calls and slipping you a card when they offer their services.</p>
<ul>
<li>Don&#8217;t be caught unawares.</li>
<li>Be vigilant</li>
<li>Be prayerful &#8211; tell God to sharpen your Gut instincts.</li>
<li>Be bold and say NO when you are not convinced.</li>
<li>Don&#8217;t be emotional when dealing with strangers.</li>
<li>Don&#8217;t be ashamed to scream and shout on top of your voice when you are in danger.</li>
<li>Don&#8217;t keep late nights.</li>
</ul>
<p style="text-align: center;"><strong>Please send this email alerts to all your friends both MALE &amp; FEMALE you may just save a LIFE.</strong></p>
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		<title>How God Will Solve your Problem</title>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 15 Jun 2010 18:52:13 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Laban Thua</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[SOURCES OF PROBLEMS 1. from devil  2. self imposed problems  3. God’s tests  Ø Rachael had prevented herself from getting children (she was barren) Gen 30:22 she was the source...]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<div><span style="font-family: Calibri"><span style="font-family: Calibri">SOURCES OF PROBLEMS</p>
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<div><span style="font-family: Calibri">1. from devil </span></div>
<p><span style="font-family: Calibri">2. self imposed problems </span></p>
<p>3. God’s tests <span id="more-93"></span></p>
<p>Ø Rachael had prevented herself from getting children (she was barren) Gen 30:22 she was the source of the problems ( she had another god from his father Laban (Genesis 31:19) </p>
<p>Ø Israel had to go to promised land for 7 days but disobedience caused them to stay for 40 years </p>
<p>Ø When you are in a problem men’s eye will be on your problem not on victory but God’s eyes will be on victory side not on your problem </p>
<p>ü E.g.. where people saw bareness- Hannah- God saw a fruitful woman Sam1:20 </p>
<p>ü Where people saw bareness – Abraham – God saw a father of many descendants </p>
<p>ü Where people saw a shepherd- David- God saw a king 1 Sam 16:1-10 </p>
<p>ü Where people saw a beggar- Widow woman- God saw an oil distributor </p>
<p>ü Where people saw an inmate- Joseph-God saw a ruler (governor or prime minister) </p>
<div><strong><span style="text-decoration: underline">TO OVERCOME PROBLEMS YOU NEED TO LISTEN CAREFULLY TO GOD’S INSTRUCTIONS </span></strong></div>
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<div><span style="font-family: Calibri">a) Isaac obeyed God’s instructions “Do go to Egypt , stay there I will bless you” (Gen 26:3)</span></div>
<p><span style="font-family: Calibri">b) The sick man for 38 years obeyed instruction “take your bed and go you are healed”</p>
<p>c) Elijah obeyed “ go and stay in a certain place- there ravens (birds) will bring food 1 kings 17:1-2</p>
<p>d) Zachariah failed to obey instructions – he became dump (Luke 1:20)</p>
<p>e) Jonah failed to obey instructions- he chose his way instead of going to Nineveh (Jonah 1:3)</p>
<p>f) The blind man obeyed instructions “go and wash your eyes at the pool” John 9:7</p>
<p>g) Naaman obeyed instructions “go and deep your self seven times at Jordan river ” 2 kings 5:14-20</p>
<div><strong><span><span style="font-family: Calibri">WHEN DEVIL IS BUSY CREATING A PROBLEM FOR YOU, GOD GETS BUSY TO PREPARE A SOLUTION FOR YOU</span></span></strong></div>
<p><strong><span><span style="font-family: Calibri"><span style="font-family: Calibri">Ø When they were planning to kill Joseph, God was preparing another man to come and buy Joseph (Genesis 37:25-28)</p>
<p>Ø As they were planning to kill Shadreck, Meshack and Abednego, God was busy preparing the fourth man- Jesus ( Daniel 3:25)</p>
<p>Ø As devil was planning to pick Judas from the other disciples, God was preparing Mathias (Acts 1:12-26)</p>
<p>Ø As they were throwing Jonah in water, God was selecting a fish that had big belly and mouth that can accommodate his body size (Jonah 2:17)</p>
<p>Ø As devil was planning how to kill David, God was preparing Jonathan to reveal the secret to David (1 Sam 19:1-3)</p>
<p>GODS LONG ROUTES</p>
<p><span style="font-family: Calibri">§ When you want to talk with God avoid short cuts because God mostly uses long routes. He is able to heal you and give you a job promotion in one day, but He can delay your 2 blessings and delay is not denial</p>
<p>§ God used long routes for the Israelites to know the provisions of God – Manna, water from the rock</p>
<p>§ God used the long routes for the Israelites to see God’s grace (their clothes grew with them)</p>
<p>§ Sometimes God does a miracle when your front side and backside lacks no entry/escape</p>
<p><strong><span style="font-family: Calibri">YOU NEED DEVINE FAVOUR TO OVERCOME YOUR PROBLEMS</p>
<p><span style="font-family: Calibri">Favor is a friendly regard shown towards another especially by a superior.</p>
<p>1) God’s favor enabled Mary to be selected from other virgin ladies to give birth to Messiah (Luke 1:29-31)</p>
<p>2) God’s favor enabled Isaac to harvest when all conditions favorable for harvest were absent (Gen 26: 1-10)</p>
<p>3) God’s favor will enable your application letter to be separated from other 400 letters in a certain office.</p>
<p>4) God’s favor will enable you to remain working when the boss tells others to pack and go.</p>
<p>5) God’s favor will cause your Visa to be released when others are bound</p>
<p>6) God’s favor will enable you to excel when others are failing</p>
<p><strong><em><span style="font-family: Calibri">The degree in which you demonstrate love to another and support God’s work will determine the multiplication of God’s favor</p>
<p></span></em>(grace, enabling power,) in your Job and your life.. </strong></span></span></strong></span></span></span></span></strong></span><strong><span> </span> </strong></p>
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		<title>Are you in a preoblem? Please read this</title>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 15 Jun 2010 18:26:41 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Laban Thua</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Ø Some of the helpless situations and problems we face include:- 1. joblessness 2. debts 3. financial struggles 4. sickness 5. accidents 6. losing our money 7. rejection etc Ø...]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><span style="font-family: Calibri">Ø Some of the helpless situations and problems we face include:-</p>
<p>1. joblessness</p>
<p>2. debts</p>
<p>3. financial struggles</p>
<p>4. sickness</p>
<p>5. accidents</p>
<p>6. losing our money</p>
<p>7. rejection etc<span id="more-91"></span></p>
<p><font face="Calibri">Ø When you face those situations the first thing to do is to thank God for the problems because God has a chance to manifest Himself through the problem.</p>
<p>Ø Before God does a miracle, there must be a problem, and the bigger the problem the greater the miracle, the tougher the challenge the sweeter the victory.. The deeper the problem the greater the God’s manifestation.</p>
<p>Ø Before God takes you to your destiny (promised land, Canaan ) first He must send you to wilderness..(a place of preparation)</p>
<p>Ø Wilderness is not a dying place but where God’s power is manifested&#8230; Wilderness is when your boss tells you to pack and go, when your debtors have decreed that you will not live, when landlord is about to take all your belongings out of his house etc.</p>
<p>Ø When you are in wilderness don’t complain instead learn to be calm</p>
<p>Ø When you are in wilderness don’t build permanent structures you are not there to stay.</p>
<p>Ø The way you behave determines how you will come out of the wilderness</p>
<p>Ø The wilderness can either leave you better or bitter</p>
<p>Ø During the time of problems devil will face you like he faced Jesus to tempt him</p>
<p>Ø When you are in the wilderness use your faith (worry looks around, regrets looks back, but faith looks up)</p>
<p>Ø Before you complain before God, first check whether the source (root) of the problem is you. You can be root of the problem</p>
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		<title>What Does A woman really want</title>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 15 Jun 2010 18:22:40 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Laban Thua</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[A story is told of a young King Arthur who was ambushed and imprisoned by the monarch of a neighboring kingdom. The monarch could have killed him but was moved...]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><span style="font-family: Calibri">A story is told of a young King Arthur who was ambushed and imprisoned by the monarch of a neighboring kingdom. The monarch could have killed him but was moved by Arthur&#8217;s youth and ideals. So, the monarch offered him his freedom, as long as he could answer a very difficult question. Arthur would have a year to figure out the answer and, if after a year, he still had no answer, he would be put to death. The question was: What do women really want?<span id="more-88"></span></p>
<p><font face="Calibri">Such a question would perplex even the most knowledgeable man, And to young Arthur, it seemed an impossible query. But, since it was better than death, He accepted the monarch&#8217;s proposition to have an answer by year&#8217;s end.</p>
<p>He returned to his kingdom and began to poll everyone: The princess, the priests, the wise men, and even the court jester.. He spoke with everyone, but no one could give him a satisfactory answer. Many people advised him to consult the old witch, For only she would have the answer. But the price would be high as the witch was famous throughout the kingdom for the exorbitant prices she charged.</p>
<p>The last day of the year arrived and Arthur had no choice but to talk to the witch. She agreed to answer the question, but he would have to agree to her price first.</p>
<p>The old witch wanted to marry Sir Lancelot, The most noble of the Knights of the Round Table, And Arthur&#8217;s closest friend! Young Arthur was horrified. She was hunch-backed and hideous, had only one tooth, Smelled like sewage, made obscene noises, etc.</p>
<p>He had never encountered such a repugnant creature in all his life. He refused to force his friend to marry her and endure such a terrible burden, But Lancelot, having learnt of the proposal, spoke with Arthur. He said nothing was too big of a sacrifice compared to Arthur&#8217;s life. And the reservation of the Round Table. Hence, a wedding was proclaimed and the witch answered. Arthur&#8217;s question thus: &#8216;What a woman really wants?&#8217;</p>
<p>She said, &#8216;Is to be in charge of her own life.&#8217;</p>
<p>Everyone in the kingdom instantly knew that the witch had uttered a great truth. And that Arthur&#8217;s life would be spared. And so it was. The neighboring monarch granted Arthur his freedom. And Lancelot and the witch had a wonderful wedding.</p>
<p>The honeymoon hour approached and, Lancelot, steeling himself for a horrific experience, entered the bedroom. But, what a sight awaited him. The most beautiful woman he had ever seen lay before him on the bed. The astounded Lancelot asked what had happened.</p>
<p>The beauty replied that since he had been so kind to her when she appeared as a witch, She would henceforth be her horrible and deformed self only half the time.. And the beautiful maiden the other half.</p>
<p>&#8216;Which would you prefer? She asked him. &#8216;Beautiful during the day &#8230;. or at night?&#8217;</p>
<p>Lancelot pondered the predicament.</p>
<p>During the day he could have a beautiful woman to show off to his friends,<br />
But at night, in the privacy of his castle, an old witch!</p>
<p>Or,</p>
<p>Would he prefer having a hideous witch during the day?<br />
But by night a beautiful woman for him to enjoy wondrous, intimate moments with?</p>
<p>(If you are a man reading this&#8230;) What would YOUR choice be?</p>
<p>(If you are a woman reading this) What should YOUR MAN&#8217;S choice be?</p>
<p>What Lancelot chose, is given below:</p>
<p>BUT&#8230; make YOUR choice before you scroll down below&#8230; OKAY?</p>
<p>Noble Lancelot, knowing the answer the witch gave Arthur to his question, He said that he would allow HER to make the choice herself. Upon hearing this, she announced that she would be beautiful all the time. Because, he had respected her enough to let her be in charge of her own life.</p>
<p>Now&#8230;. what is the moral to this story?</p>
<p>The moral is:&#8230;</p>
<p>1) There is a witch in every woman no matter how beautiful she is!</p>
<p>2) If you don&#8217;t let a woman have her own way, things are going to get very bitchy and ugly.</p>
<p>Therefore… IT&#8217;S EITHER &#8216;HER WAY&#8217; OR IT&#8217;S &#8216;NO WAY&#8217;.</p>
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